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Baby (Number 2) Journal: 20 Weeks

Dear Pepper

"Oh....we're halfway there!" and thank goodness we are! Life this week was a little different, as most of the week I spent out of town at a work conference. Baby is doing well, but just feeling bigger and bigger by the day!

We only have a few trips left before you arrive. You aren't getting to travel as much as Lorelai did when she was in my tummy...but it isn't you (its because of your big sister!)

I love that you are moving around so much lately, it is my absolute favorite (maybe only perk) of pregnancy. That is the thing I missed when Lorelai was born. Your dad actually got to feel you move this week, which is awesome! It shocked us both, but you gave a really good kick.

This week we saw the musical "Dear Evan Hansen" and it really made me think about those hard parenting days that will come up when you are older. When you go through the awkward teen years, and think your dad and I are against you...when really we will be your biggest fan no matter what. Thankfully we have more years until we reach that point, and a lot more parenting experience when you get there.

We will get to see you again in a few days for another utrasound...and can't wait! I'm sure you've grown so much in the last month!!

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